she wants to be the first voice you hear when you wake up in the morning. fuck being courteous and just call her and wake her up! it’ll start off her day with a huge smile on her face. when you tell her you’re gonna do something, you’d better keep your word. don’t think she’ll forget about it later on because her expectations are now set high once you say the words “i promise”. don’t you dare disappoint her because you can lose her trust in you so quickly and she won’t be that happy girl you fell for in the beginning.
be a good boyfriend when you’re out with your buddies and when you tell her you’re gonna call once you got to your friends safely, you’d better call or at least text because when you tell her you’re going to have those little checkpoints, she expects you to be texting her every step of the way. you have no right to call her a clingy, insecure girlfriend if you’re were being an asshole boyfriend keeping your girl at home wondering what’s going on with her so-called man.
once the day is over all she wants is to hear the sound of your voice saying that you miss her and can’t wait to see her again. after you two hang up and she calls back and says she wants to fall asleep on the phone with you, don’t get all cranky and tell her you needa wake up for work early tmrw morning. stfu! you want her calling one of her other guy friends that’s not too pussy too just go to sleep with a phone on his ear?! you’re lucky that you even have a gf that cares for you so much and you should be honored that she called YOU to stay up with her.
you gotta appreciate your girl and understand where she comes from. love her from the depths of your heart. if you don’t, you better believe she’ll drop you because their are so many other guys out there that would treat her so much better than you ever did.
"I think letting love find you is more meaningful rather than trying to find love. When it’s anticipated, you suddenly have expectations that might not even be met."
I feel like I’m going through this careless phase, and honestly.. I don’t care. Caring too much leads to too many disappointments, leading me through too many emotions, causing me to be melancholic. I can’t say that I don’t care, ‘cause I do, I just don’t really care as much as I used to. It’s a bad mindset, but I’m less disappointed nowadays.
“I don’t say it often but I’m scared. I can’t stand the fact that you could hurt me. I don’t like being this close, but I love it. You’re my everything and I hate it. Because you have everything you need to break me. And I’m not saying you will, but I am scared”—
the past two days have proved that i am in fact a fool for you.. but at least i know it’s the exact same thing vice versa. i hate you for your charm, but i love you for being an asshole. a REAL asshole. i appreciate how although it can be a bad thing it is most definitely a reality check.. no one is EVER gonna do that right thing at the right moment.. and you showed me that although things don’t seem right and plans aren’t always followed.. they will always fall into place where they belong. living life isn’t about following all the rules in the book… it’s about realizing your boundaries.. and how many of those rules you can break until you know who you finally are.. i have learned so much about myself through you… you’ve tested my patience, my pride.. and most of all, my love.. i appreciate everything that we have gone through. i appreciate you for trying to prove to me that you deserve my trust, and most of all, me. i know we bicker and say things we don’t mean, but at the end of the night… who is it that we think about and crawl back to? eachother… we may not be like other couples who are always sweet, surprising eachother, spending every minute they can w/ eachother.. but i know what we have is something real.. because no matter if it’s negative or positive, i will always cherish it.. you have opened my eyes about many things.. you have thought me that things can always be worse.. and that life goes on. We still continue to test eachother, but that’s what loves about.. we’re both vulnerable… we’re both scared.. but if we want to, we can do it! you have courage, i have the drive.. we’re both stubborn.. and even though we aren’t fighters, we fight for love. You are better than the boyman of my dreams, because you… you are real. you are my reality check… and no matter what, i will always some type of love you..
“Now I can say, Paging Dr. Pepper”.. only you would understand that, maybe idk.. ily hippie. :/
“Hypocrites always want to play innocent
Always want to take it to the full out extent
Always want to make it seem like good intent
Never want to face it when it’s time for punishment”—Lost Ones, Lauryn Hill (via primarilymotivated) (via thelookoflove)
She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date. This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste. You call her insecure.
She holds on to you like she’s never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she’s lucky that she has you, and no, you’re not available. You call her clingy.
She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there’s nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed. You call her shallow and jealous.
She checks up on you, making sure you made it home safely or that you’re not out getting yourself into any kind of trouble. This is her way of showing how often she thinks about you and that she worries constantly because that’s how much she cares. You say she’s nagging.
She cries when you do or say something wrong. This is her way of saying “That hurt only because YOU said it and I love YOU.” You call her overly sensitive and emotional.
She loves you more than you love her. This is her way of dealing with the fact that your relationship wasn’t like how it used to be, but she is willing to make room for more love and some changes. You push her away.
You call her dramatic and annoying. So go ahead. Leave the insecure, clingy, jealous, nagging, overly sensitive, annoying girl. She will soon be much happier in the arms of someone who actually deserves her: the perfect boyfriend.
“Don’t feel stupid for missing him, even if he treated you like shit. You still had happy memories and you’re always going to miss them. Don’t try to replace him, cause you won’t. Just get through each day and eventually it’ll get better. i promise. eventually someone will come into your life and whether or not you realize it, they’re going to be
something special to you. so don’t throw yourself at every guy you see, trying to replace him, or at least dull the memories. cause you’re only going to make yourself see how hard he is to replace. Someone better will eventually come along.”—
" Whoever said, “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone” is wrong, because you know exactly what you have when you have it. You just don’t know how much you need it until you can’t have it anymore. "
“I’m not gonna be like every other girl and put sad, I miss you, quotes in my profile because I’m stronger than that. And I won’t trash talk you to my friends either because you were my best. And I’m not going to put winky faces in my away messages that have no meaning just so you’ll be jealous. And yeah, it’ll be a while before I’m completely over you. But when the day comes that you don’t cross my mind, and I finally do forget you for good, please don’t remember me.”—(via eletheowl)
" I realized now that it was never me you wanted, just a relationship, someone to be there, some security. And there I was. It seemed perfect to you. At times, it even seemed perfect to me. But after being lied to so many times I’ve gotten to the point where nothing matters anymore. So go ahead and say it’s easy to walk away, because I don’t believe it for a second. You will never find no one like me. Trust me, I’m not that easy to get over. "
“I may not be with him, but he’s still my world. He’s still the one thing worth holding onto the true test of love is no matter how long you two go without talking, he will always find a way back into your heart. No matter how hard you try to forget him, you can’t. It’s the little things that mean the most, but break your heart all the same. It’s those times
when a song comes on and immediately you cry missing him, wanting him, needing him.
Just wishing he thinks about you, and he has never forgot the memories you two have means everything. Just the small thought of maybe, just maybe there might be an “us” gives you the strength to hold on that much longer. You never realize how much you love something until you lose it, and you’re one of the lucky ones if you get it back.”—
Maybe I wasn’t asking you to love me, maybe I was asking you to understand, because for so long I’ve been hurt and for so long you’ve ignored it, and maybe it is bad timing, but maybe, I don’t care. I’ve been here all along just waiting, waiting for you to notice, waiting for you to care. Waiting for you to say that you’ve been waiting too, and you haven’t and maybe you never will or maybe you’re afraid to. But it all hurts the same, and in the end, I’m the one that’s left broken and when I lay down to sleep, I’m still the one crying, so screw the bad timing. I’ve loved you then, like I love you now, like I probably always will.
To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about it, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride, and its not about how you appear, and it’s not about obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isnt blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish memories, to overcome and move on. It is having an open mind in confidence for the future. Letting go is learning, experiencing, and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. letting go is growing up. it is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go is to open a door, to clear a path and let yourself free.
It’s getting so hard to be around you. Because every time I see you, I see a stranger. You’ve changed, and I just miss the person you used to be. The one that cared, the one that wouldn’t ever hurt me, not if they could help it. But now, now all you care about is yourself. Maybe you never did care in the first place, I’m not sure. All I know is the person I loved so much is no longer there. Nothing is left of you. Everything’s changed, and I miss the person you used to be.
You used to treat me like I was special. Now you’ve found someone else and she gets to be the special one. You can’t just throw me out of your mind. It doesn’t work like that. Besides, what are you going to do when whatever you have with this someone ends? Because it will. You’re just to blind to see that right now. But when it ends, I won’t be there to help pick up the pieces for you. You’ll have to do it all by yourself and you haven’t been alone in such a long time. And at that second when you and her fall apart…you’ll wish you would’ve never let me go.
“I hope that someday, you find an amazing girl. The kind of girl who means everything to you and makes you want to spend every moment of your time with her. The kind of girl who keeps you up at night, just thinking about her beautiful smile, and when you finally fall asleep, she’s all you dream about. I hope she’s the first thing to cross your mind when you wake up in the morning. I hope she changes you in a way you could never understand, yet you know it`s for the better. I hope she’s the kind of girl you would die for. The kind of girl who could make you cry, even though you’d never admit it. The kind of girl who makes you want to go out and do something special, something that means everything to the both of you. The kind of girl you can have silly fights with, then kiss and make up and hold her in your arms like you`re falling in love all over again. I hope you make memories with her you never forget. I hope she’s your world, and what you have with her is nothing less than perfection. And I hope that one day, you lose her. I hope you mess up and as hard as you try to keep her there with you, she slips through the cracks of your broken heart. I hope it destroys you, because you realize you’ve lost the person you once called your everything. I hope you see every moment you spent together spin away down the drain like it was waiting to happen. I hope you stay up at night because she’s on your mind and when you fall asleep, she haunts your dreams. I hope her beautiful smile stays pressed in your mind like a scar that won`t fade away. I hope you realize that you’re a new person because of her, I hope your new self feels incomplete without her and you miss the old you. The one that was okay with being alone, because you’d rather be the heartbreaker than the heartbroken.”—(via eletheowl)
"I remember when I was love sick. You block out everyone. You feel so tired, because you haven’t slept in forever. You know he’ll be in your dreams but you don’t want to stay awake laying in your bed crying either. You’re starving, but you can’t eat because you’re starving for him and every memory just leaves you with a bigger hole in your heart. Even your clothes reminds you of him, what you wore when you hung out. You can still smell them all over him, even though his scent hasn’t been there for long. You wish his scent would be stuck on you, but you know you’d be pulling at your skin trying to get him off you. You’re online, he signs on, and you want to scream at him to go away, but you just watch the screen waiting for him to say anything, but then he signs off, and you tear yourself apart for not saying anything to him. You stop talking to your friends, and they get worried and try comforting you, but they just make you feel worse because they think they know, but they don’t have a damn clue."
“It’s only after you’ve lost everything that you’re free to do anything.”
I don’t understand why I miss you after all you’ve done to me.. Maybe somewhere in all of this there’s a reason. Maybe somewhere in all of this there’s a why. Maybe somewhere there’s that thing that lets you tie it all up with a neat bow and bury it in the backyard. But nothing, not getting angry, not prayers, and not tears, nothing can make something that happened unhappen.
I hate you for your mental abuse. I hate the way you have made me. I hate how I let you control me. I hate how I lost myself in you. I hate how I actually for once, fell IN love…
Theres only so many times you can allow someone to let you down before you can’t handle the disappointment anymore. When things change, people change. There’s a point in life where you get tired of chasing everyone trying to fix things, but it’s not giving up, you’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts.
It's a weird sensation to be in love with someone. No matter how hard you try your thoughts always wander back to them. You wonder what they're doing, if they're thinking of you. And you would trade anything to be by their side. Such a powerful emotion; it's capable of blinding you. That's how you know you're in love. You are blind to the ugliness of everything around you. It all kind of melts away and you're just left with love.
“Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women: Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul. Look at how the guy treats his mother and what he says about women. How he acts with children he doesn’t know. And, more important, how does he treat you? When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good. You should never feel less than. You should never doubt yourself. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole. And if you’re in that relationship and you’re dating, then my advice is, don’t get married.”—Michelle Obama speaks with Katie Couric in an interview for Glamour magazine (via twnty1) (via xobellax) (via kissmycouture)
ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A FUCKING CHEATER! too bad i don’t like playing games tho. this will be easy because you are not who i thought you were.. (: good fucking luck asshole.. THANKS FOR THE LIFE LESSON! :)
12969.) i hate the way you are. you're so controlling. i am not allowed to do anything. you treat me as if i were a dog. you dont understand, you think this is normal. sometimes i think that i'm the weird one for thinking that this is wrong, but im not! i want to have a normal relationship. we're going on a year and a half and sometimes, you're amazing. then it goes back to the same old shit. and the funny thing is, that no matter how much you disgust me with your way of being. there is no way i will ever leave you. i love you.
From anyone at all. I must admit, I’m pretty loud, weird, and I lose my train of thought when I’m not alone. People keep me sane. When I’m all alone, that’s when my mentality tends to retaliate into this confinement and I end up being the overanalytical person that I am. Sometimes when I overanalyze things, I think I go crazy. I may think wiser and smarter, but it doesn’t always make me happy in the process. Sadly, I need the company of others to help me get my mind off those ill miasmas invading my thoughts.
You will find that each relationship you’re in & the hardships that come with them are the building blocks for being able to handle almost any situation in your future relationships. Until finally someone comes along who will love you unconditionally & who you’ll just know is in it for the long run. For now, learn the lessons, appreciate the time spent & move forward. There is no use in being miserable over someone who is happy without you. - UNKNOWN